Thursday, July 22, 2010

Mother suspected of strangling autistic children tells 911 operator: 'I want normal kids'


DALLAS - (McClatchy-Tribune) -- An Irving, Texas, mother accused of strangling her two children with an antenna wire told a 911 operator that she killed them because they were not "normal."

"Both are autistic," she said. "I don't want my kids to be like that. I want normal kids."

Saiqa Akhter, 30, was arraigned Wednesday morning on a single charge of capital murder in the death of her 5-year-old son Zain, who died Monday. Family members have said the boy was autistic and had a speech impediment.

Irving officials canceled a second arraignment Wednesday afternoon in the death of her 2-year-old daughter, Faryaal, who died Tuesday evening a day after she was revived and placed on life support.

Akhter called 911 about 5 p.m. Monday from the family's apartment.

In the 911 tape, released Wednesday, Akhter admits to wrapping a wire around the children's necks until they turned blue. Before that, she said she tried to make them drink bathroom cleaner.

"I put in their mouth, but they don't drink it," she said.

While still on the phone with the 911 operator, she washed her hands to get rid of the smell of the household cleaner.

Police found the children lying on a bed in the family's second-floor apartment along with an antenna wire they believe was used to kill the children, according to a probable-cause affidavit. Also listed among the items removed from the home were a pillow, a section of mattress and a bottle of household cleaner.

Akhter's uncle said his niece had been depressed since moving into the new apartment and reported "strange things" inside the family's home.

"It looks like she had mental problems," said Wasimul Haque, who did not elaborate on what Saiqa Akhter said she had seen. "I don't understand why she did it."

Zain, the 5-year-old, had autism and suffered from a severe speech impediment but had been improving, the uncle said. He said the boy had been in speech therapy.

Faryaal also had health problems and was rushed to the emergency room last year with a respiratory issue. A stethoscope was also taken from the home.

The children's father, Rashid Akhter, emigrated from Pakistan in the late 1990s. He married Saiqa several years later, and she then moved here. He works as a computer technician.

"He did whatever he can do with his wife to keep her happy all the time," Haque said.

The family was the subject of a Child Protective Services investigation last year after Zain was left alone at home while his parents rushed his sister to a hospital to be treated for breathing problems.

An agency spokeswoman said there were no signs of neglect or abuse.

(c) 2010, The Dallas Morning News
**********edited to add link to the mom's 911 call****
http://media2.myfoxdfw.com/video/2010/07/21/911irving.wav


Wow, I don't even know where to begin on this one. First of all, my 4 year old son has non-verbal autism, and while his diagnosis was a shock for me, I would never harm him. I love my son more than my life, and without him, my life has no meaning. It is stressful raising an autistic child, and this woman did have 2 kids with autism, but she also has a HUSBAND, I am doing this on my own (with my mom) without any day to day help from his dad.

This woman obviously needed help and I can't imagine why she didn't get the help that she needed. I do think that unlike Andrea Yates who had a mental illness when she killed her children and was sent to a mental hospital, this evil wench deserves to sit her fat ass on death row for the rest of her miserable life.

Friday, July 9, 2010

my top 5 songs of Summer 10 so far

I am a music junkie and decided to share my top 5 songs of the summer so far:

1. Travie McCoy feat Bruno Mars- Billionaire



it's catchy as hell, and I have been crushing on Travie since I got into Gym Class Heroes

2. B.O.B feat Hayley Williams of Paramore & Eminem- Airplanes part 2


3. Eminem feat Rihanna- Love The Way You Lie


4. La Roux- Bulletproof



5. Katy Perry feat Snoop Dogg- Californina Gurlz

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CwE-SLnLkqY&feature=related



Thursday, July 8, 2010

the Primetime Emmys snubbed True Blood

This morning, I was up with my son watching Sofia Vergara (who I love on "Modern Family") and Joel Mchale announce the nominations for the Primetime Emmys, while I am thrilled that the show got nominated for Best Drama, I am shocked that none of the actors, namely Anna Paquin ("Sookie") Stephen Moyer (Bill) Alexander Skarsgard (Eric) Rutina Wesley (Tara) Michelle Forbes (Mary Ann) or Mechad Brooks (Eggs) weren't nominated. I think it's because the Primetime Emmys hate genre TV, which has to be why the amazingly talented "Supernatural" boys Jensen Ackles and Jared Padelicki were never nominated. Oh well, I still enjoy my "genre" TV!
Here is a link to the complete list of nominations for the 2010 Primetime Emmys

Wednesday, July 7, 2010

being single is getting boring

For the longest time, I have enjoyed being single, but as I enter my 30s, I'm ready to start dating again. My last few relationships were with guys who were just wrong for me on so many levels. I am ready to start dating women exclusively. I have been pondering this for awhile. I've known I was bisexual since I was about 14 or 15. I just hope that nobody in my life has a problem with it, if they do then they can exit stage right. I'm just doing me. Hopefully once I move out of this house and get settled in our new place, I'll have some free time to start getting out more, hard to meet someone when you sit in the house all day, every day. I also need to start being more outgoing.

Sunday, January 24, 2010

failed on my diet last week, will start again Monday

I had a setback in my diet plans last week. I did so good last week, doing the Wii every day and my blood sugars were doing so well, in the 100-150 range (where my Dr. wanted them to be), but after Bill had a rough day at the barber shop and my mom started in on what a bad mother I am again, it depressed me and I ate 2 pieces of chocolate cake . and I haven't been on the Wii in over a week. I am not going to let her break me down, she may enjoy being heavy and out of shape, but I don't. I am going to throw that cake in the garbage and do the Wii for at least 20 minutes while my son is at school tomorrow.