is it too much to ask for, to just be me, no judgements?

I have been different all my life. I am a 30 year old black woman and I love pop music, country music, rock music and basically diverse types of music what I like to listen to , the last couple of people that I dated would ask why I listen to Taylor Swift, Kelly Clarkson, etc. Or if you I was watching a "white" show like "Gossip Girl" "One Tree Hill" or "90210" I'd get accused of being an "oreo" geez, all I want is for someone to love me, all of me, weird taste in music, movies and TV and all!  

CD of the moment "Lovestrong" by Christina Perri